So good morning, this wasnt intended as the post of the day but I really just couldn’t help it. Initially I was going to post the entire snapshots – but i refuse to perpetrate ignorance beyond what is needed for the conversation I want to have today. You can find the story of what transpired between an OAP and two Yoruba socialite brothers who were accused of crashing weddings HERE
Now while the OAP did tweet and the accused have a right of response, I believe the brothers have displayed themselves for what they are. Uncouth, illeducated men who have refused to grow up after their teenage years. One of whom from time I have even posted his instagram posts which he receives by emails on this site – he claims to be a psychologist. Even me that took only one class in psychology in University which i failed know the difference between clapping back with social decorum and just being an uncultured nuisance.
Ok so she has said yall crash weddings, and you come back with childhood rape? The size of her private part and un married status? You begin to wonder if they value the women around them. Then you make it worse by mentioning who your grandfather was? Hian if you truly respected the role the man played in building Nigeria you will not have the response you displayed – you would be more concerned about protecting his legacy. Many people have grandparents who built Nigeria- not everyone of us carries it on our heads- instead we strive for our own accomplishments.
With men like these being the most prominent in public spaces its a wonder many women end up crying. Personally any woman that sees this nonsense and still ends up with the single one of these men, you get whatever you deserve. I won’t even compare them to women because this shit is lower than what market women display. And many women exhibit a larger degree of self control – childhood rape? This is the type of man who you decide to break up with that will fight you dirty and without dignity.
Women know the men to avoid – people in general who fight like this are lacking in foresight and have greater issues to deal with. I am a woman and I don’t condone this fighting style. I believe in fewer more respectful but straight to the point words – no need to insult anyone to the point where you end up looking like a fool.
Thats just my 2 cents. I still can’t wrap my head around grown men sitting and recording such vile content. One of them has a wife and both have a mother.