This post is inspired by an instagram post by Cornelia…i can’t quite remember her handle and I am in a bit of a hurry. So people who show up to your house unannounced or when you show up to people’s houses unannounced.
I am one of those people i guard my space almost like a mad woman. Even when i lived alone, you couldn’t just show up to my house. It irritates me beyond i don’t know. Not even someone I am dating- casually or seriously. One day a friend showed up to my house unannounced and i looked through the window and said I wasn’t available. Nobody died- don’t just show up. Call first…and give me the chance to respond…don’t show up after 10 minutes of calling when i don’t pick up.
Even with my family i dont just show up to my parents house despite having a key. I rarely ever let myself in despite having the said key. I just don’t do it.
So over to you, do you visit people unannounced in this day and age? Do you have an open door policy in your house? Or do you have the crazy “its my space syndrome” which affects people like me? No i didnt grow up in a house full of people or a crowded space- so at least I don’t believe I am compensating for anything. ..it’s just that my space is my space. Lol.
Sorry for the late posts these days…between transiting and time zones I am a bit scattered. Look out for my girls trip in Miami pix. …just kidding..i don’t roll like that😅😅