Hmm this one is brand new and latest gist to me oh. People always manage to take and twist cultures. Who says it is by force to have a bridal train? If you dont have one does it make you less married? Why are people twisting matters?
I was jejely catching up on my blogs i read, thats how i saw a memo for bridesmaids asking to be paid. I know you are crossing your eyes, like wtf. Yes so apparently people are renting bridesmaids for the day. This one was an alleged god son or adopted son of GEJ who had rented bridesmaids. The same way you would hire ushers for an event, you can hire or rather employ bridesmaids for the day.
The excuse that was given for this particular couple was that all the brides friends were either married or too fat. My next question is who should be your bridesmaid? Shouldn’t you have a relationship of some sort with the people on your train? I mean in 10 years when the bride looks at her pictures, what is she thinking? Have weddings simply become a show for others, that folks don’t care who stands next to them when they are reciting their vows?
Personally i dont find bridesmaids a necessity, maybe because i grew up with only brothers, but i was perfectly capable of carrying my dress alone on my wedding day. My maid of Honor volunteered herself, and i accepted to keep the peace. To me coordinating the bridal train is more drama than it is worth. The only two people important to me were the priest and my husband. All others i was grateful to have, but realised if they weren’t there we would have still gotten married.
Apparently there are even websites that service this industry. Wow. Marriage is about two people, not the bridal train, pictures or wedding oh.
Please share your thoughts on the rented bridesmaid bruhaha .
Today is absolutely the last day for the two single in gidi tickets. You can be a winner here