Hahaha, i havent gone mad, but the slightly judgemental part of my personality believes some people have indeed gone mad. So i decided to sneak onto facebook like i usually do, since i am really too lazy to call anybody and pretty much attempt to stay current.
Frankly based on some people’s updates and tags, i can tell you where they went the last 3 days, what they ate and possibly even what they wore. Yes social media has made people so self centric that they will post their every action. So as i was browsing through the updates, i noticed one person got married, another person had lost 51 pounds, someone else was gifted her first Hermes scarf and another person went to a John Legend concert.
Imagine the shock on my face when i saw a celebration of three years of celibacy? First of all i was confused because it was a party, like get together party type thing. Imagine my amazement, when everyone was also commenting on the party posts and she even did a mini post on her decision to be celibate.
I am not against celibacy, neither am I against pre-marital sex. I simply say be valid about your reasons for doing anything. I dont need to know if you are having sex 10 times a day or of you haven’t had any in 3 years. Its a private matter and i think social media is helping people lose their minds fast. Next thing these same folks would be complaining about haters and people in their personal business.
I dont need to know if your vagina has been partying like Ibiza on cocaine, neither do I need to know if it hasn’t been watered like the Middle Eastern desert in Iraq. Keep matters pertaining to your private parts private!
Please share your thought on this oversharing phenomenon that folks seem to have going on.