We are often selfish in our actions in out decisions etc. I think i might be going through a phase right now, i feel the world is against me, even my husband on some days, so i just ignore him.
Speaking of husbands, my husband somehow thinks he has a monopoly on anger/ malice keeping which i tell you, i thank God I found the word of God when i did. Because some things i just want to say to him i walk away and i tell you sometimes silence keeps a relationship. My husband by all standards is a responsible man, but like me he has his shortcomings, which i have chosen to ignore for the better part. That said, sometimes he makes decisions by himself and that irritates the daylights out of me. This post wasnt supposed to be about him. So moving on.
I still haven’t picked a winner for the n5k shop, somehow i am just lazy about picking a winner and sending thr emails etc. Its just ridiculous.
She is leaving me. My friend of many many years is moving away from Nigeria. For selfish reasons i want to cry. Who am i going to call up and drive to their place when i am feeling blue? Who isnt going to think i am crazy with my overambitious self? Who is going to think i am awesome even when i admit i have no clue what i am doing? Who is going to think i am cool? Who can i share my fears with that wont judge me? Who? I know 20 friends cannot play together for 20 years and there’s whatsapp and skype. But she is my friend who tells me she loves me when she gets off the phone! The friend who didnt get offended when i said i had no bridal train, but simply and calmly volunteered herself as the maid of honor.
My lovely is moving. Let me start with our history. Our moms met through nigerwives back in the days and we knew each other casually. Then i moved to Dubai in 2006ish and a mutual friend also another Nigerwife kid re – introduced us. And ever since then we have been thick as thieves. I left dubai 2010 to move to lag she worked a transfer to lag, it took 2 years but she did it and suprised me on my 30th birthday when shr showed up in Lagos.
Her job frustrated her so she resigned and is leaving on boxing day back to the Philippines. This is one of those moments i wish i was single and could go to the Philippines for a month and just hang out. I need a creative way to convince my husband we both need space. Hahahaha. Even one week. I am praying my lovely gets a job in Accra at least she will be closer, and i hope she finds an awesome partner. She and my mother are the two most sincere people i know. I cant even say that for my own self.
I am going to miss her.
Today’s giveaway is n3000 to a network of choice in Nigeria. At least it will do one month bbm or data for someone.
I am running low on funds, so please bear with me. Intentions are good, but resources arent always cooperative. And i am leaving town soon, so i have to be a bit conservative with spending.
I wish you a blessed week ahead. May God bless you and all of yours. May your purpose be fulfilled this week.