Hello everyone how is the going going? I have crossed over to the other side of the pond. My UK border patrol harassment story is for another day.
So a friend called me up to just air her feelings about a situation. Her friend Tina called her up to tell her she was going to be an aunty. To the best of her knowledge, Tina wasnt seeing anyone. So she said congrats and began probing.
Turns out Tina had an affair with her sister’s husband’s friend. Said affair has been going on for 4 years. Tina’s sister has cut her off because of the issue. Anyways Tina has decided to birth the child.
Now Tina has told her boyfriend’s wife she is pregnant. Said boyfriend has 3 kids with his wife. Tina claims the wife embraced her and told her she would treat her like a sister and the wife’s mother told her she was welcome.
All that craziness aside, Tina makes beads for a living in Lagos and is always around town with this woman’s husband.
I am really short of words, because i dont believe a 30 year old woman could rob another woman of her home and claim happiness. Fine the man doesnt respect his home, but it takes two, no? Next she has no tangible source of income, if a man can betray a woman who he swore to God to love and protect, what keeps him from throwing her -Tina on the streets?
I am asking questions in my head and i keep thinking, maybe she simply has low self esteem? Or are they winching her from her village? Bizzare things are happening.
Please feel free to comment on the issue at hand.